The
sound of those words can shift my mood, shape my posture, awaken my
memory and conjure images of rocking chairs. I can almost feel the cool
breezes on warm afternoons. Simply thinking about the porch, on the
house I grew up in, lowers my blood pressure and reduces my stress. It
was my place for reading, rocking, storytelling and sharing with
family, neighbors and friends. It was a fort, a rocket ship, a safe
harbor and sanctuary.
The porches of our lives hold fond and
vivid memories for families. All of our greetings and partings of
family and friends take place there. For most, the porch became the
outdoor living room - a place to spend hours sitting and talking with
family and friends. Folks didn’t really used to think much about their
porches – most people had them and used them. It was just there, open
and social, an unincorporated part of the house that belonged to
everyone and no one. It was the heart and soul of home where for family
and friends to passed the time.
I would venture to say that
more of life’s issues were resolved on the front porches of my
childhood than in any other place. Today, televisions, computers, cell
phones, air conditioners and privacy fences have usurped the porch for
stairs and stoops. I mark the disappearance of the porch with the
declining popularity of Halloween, the appearance of the ATM and our
fascination with drive up windows.
With so many things pulling
us away, it may take some special effort to get back, “out on the
porch”. We’ve become accustomed to watching the kids whack the wiffle
ball, chase the dog and celebrate birthdays – out on the deck. Don’t
get me wrong it can be nice out there; but, in all these years I've not
come to know my neighbors the way I did when I lived in the house with
the big front porch. About the best we can muster is a wave when we are
getting into our cars.
This is all quite contrary to the human
spirit and my experience is folks find ways to balance the ledger.
Which brings me to my point…does your porch say, " Welcome"? Do you have a
cheerful porch? The front door gives a glimpse of the personality of a
home and its owner. The entrance to the place you call home speaks
volumes about who lives beyond the door.
No
matter how big or small your porch, it can call out a warm welcome to
guests with a little creativity. Dress it up on holidays and get
yourself one of those ubiquitous carved outdoor welcome signs that are hand carved deeply into red cedar and offer a friendly, Hello!
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